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The Hidden Blessing: Gratitude for Healthy Families in a Challenging World

Sometimes, it takes hearing someone else’s story to realize how much we take for granted. Through a heartfelt conversation with two mothers—both incredible women navigating challenging realities—I gained a new perspective on what it means to raise children, especially when life presents unexpected obstacles.

One of these mothers has a child with autism. For her, motherhood is not just about nurturing and guiding but also about navigating a world that isn’t always equipped to support children with special needs. Her story opened my eyes to the immense dedication and resilience it takes to provide for such a child—especially in places where resources are limited.

Global Prevalence and Autism Support

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) prevalence varies globally. Certain regions report higher rates, partly due to differences in diagnostic practices and awareness levels. For example:

  • Qatar: 151 per 10,000 individuals.
  • United Arab Emirates (UAE): 112 per 10,000 individuals.
  • Oman: 107 per 10,000 individuals.
  • France: Lower rates, approximately 69.3 per 10,000 individuals.

These figures suggest significant differences across countries, but they also highlight the need for systemic support for families raising children with autism. While some countries offer extensive resources, others have limited infrastructure, leaving families to navigate immense challenges on their own.

Institutions and Support Systems in Key Countries

Singapore:
Singapore offers several specialized institutions for children with autism, though the overall number remains limited. Some notable examples include:
  • Pathlight School: The first autism-focused school offering the national curriculum alongside life readiness skills.
  • Eden School: Focuses on vocational training for children with autism.
  • St. Andrew’s Autism Centre: Provides special education and training for children and youths with autism.

While these institutions provide valuable services, families often struggle with long waitlists or limited access to more specialized programs.

Russia:
In Moscow, families with children on the autism spectrum have access to:
  • Federal Resource Center for Organization of Comprehensive Support to Children with Autism Spectrum Disorders: Provides methodological support and resources.
  • Moscow Center for Psychological and Educational Assistance: Offers diagnostic and corrective services for children with developmental disorders.
  • Specialized Schools and Kindergartens: A network of institutions dedicated to children with developmental needs, including autism.

Russia, especially in larger cities, demonstrates a growing awareness and infrastructure for supporting children with autism, making education and therapy more accessible.

United Arab Emirates (UAE):
The UAE has made significant strides in supporting children with autism through institutions such as:
  • Abu Dhabi Center for Autism: Offers comprehensive education and therapy.
  • Dubai Autism Center: Provides specialized programs tailored to children with autism.
  • Sharjah Autism Center: Focuses on integrating children with autism into society through education and training.

These institutions reflect the UAE’s commitment to creating inclusive environments for children with special needs, although there remains room for expansion and further development.

The Challenge and the Gratitude

These mothers’ stories highlight how challenging it can be to raise a child with autism, especially in countries where resources are scarce or inaccessible. Many families are forced to relocate to nations like Australia, where subsidies and specialized programs are more readily available. In contrast, in some regions, the lack of support exacerbates the difficulties of raising a child with special needs.

This reflection is not only about the challenges faced by families raising children with autism but also about gratitude. For those of us blessed with healthy children—children who can run, play, speak, and grow without significant health challenges—it’s important to pause and appreciate the ease of our everyday lives. The ability to witness your child’s milestones without the backdrop of hospitals, therapies, or struggles to secure basic support is an immense blessing.

The conclusion is simple but powerful: Be grateful. Appreciate the health of your children and family, because for many, life is an uphill battle. By understanding the struggles of others, we can cultivate deeper empathy and perhaps even advocate for better systems of support for all families, regardless of where they live.

Let us cherish the ordinary joys, for they are extraordinary in the context of the challenges faced by others.
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